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August 19, 2008

The inside out method of attraction

The inside out method of attraction
Hey guys, "Inside out." A statement with multiple meanings. It could be a really cool song by a band called XYZ (it is). Or it could be a very useful attraction philosophy (it is as well). You can check out…
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Your Comments Please
OPW — Aug 15 — We love comments. Here’s the courtesy rules for commenting. Online Personals Watch is for those in the internet dating business community. As a courtesy to interviewees, derogatory comments are deleted from interview threads. Feel free to posted elsewhere on the site, but anonymous comments and comments clearly hawking products/services may also be deleted, I should note. If your comment adds to the professional and courteous discussion of the business of internet dating, it adds something to the community and will not be deleted. Please keep your comments professional and courteous, with constructive criticism. Thanks for your consideration. Does this sound fair? - Mark Brooks

Opwlogo OPW — Aug 15 — We love comments. Here’s the courtesy rules for commenting. Online Personals Watch is for those in the internet dating business community. As a courtesy to interviewees, derogatory comments are deleted from interview threads. Feel free to posted elsewhere on the site, but anonymous comments and comments clearly hawking products/services may also be deleted, I should note. If your comment adds to the professional and courteous discussion of the business of internet dating, it adds something to the community and will not be deleted. Please keep your comments professional and courteous, with constructive criticism. Thanks for your consideration. Does this sound fair? - Mark Brooks


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Can I eat a 3 pound burger?
Hey guys, I am on my way to Cleveland, OH for two reasons. One is for a mastermind meeting, where a group of us "information marketers" gets together to brainstorm ideas for our respective businesses. The other reason is a…
Source: www.johnalanis.com

Ignighter
Today, Ignighter is bringing a group of Obama supporters (official supporters, members of Obama support groups, staffers, etc) together on a group date with Clinton supporters (and former staffers). What a great idea. More on the Ignighter blog.

Today, Ignighter is bringing a group of Obama supporters (official supporters, members of Obama support groups, staffers, etc) together on a group date with Clinton supporters (and former staffers). What a great idea. More on the Ignighter blog.


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The inside out method of attraction
Hey guys, "Inside out." A statement with multiple meanings. It could be a really cool song by a band called XYZ (it is). Or it could be a very useful attraction philosophy (it is as well). You can check out…
Source: www.johnalanis.com

Your Comments Please
OPW — Aug 15 — We love comments. Here’s the courtesy rules for commenting. Online Personals Watch is for those in the internet dating business community. As a courtesy to interviewees, derogatory comments are deleted from interview threads. Feel free to posted elsewhere on the site, but anonymous comments and comments clearly hawking products/services may also be deleted, I should note. If your comment adds to the professional and courteous discussion of the business of internet dating, it adds something to the community and will not be deleted. Please keep your comments professional and courteous, with constructive criticism. Thanks for your consideration. Does this sound fair? - Mark Brooks

Opwlogo OPW — Aug 15 — We love comments. Here’s the courtesy rules for commenting. Online Personals Watch is for those in the internet dating business community. As a courtesy to interviewees, derogatory comments are deleted from interview threads. Feel free to posted elsewhere on the site, but anonymous comments and comments clearly hawking products/services may also be deleted, I should note. If your comment adds to the professional and courteous discussion of the business of internet dating, it adds something to the community and will not be deleted. Please keep your comments professional and courteous, with constructive criticism. Thanks for your consideration. Does this sound fair? - Mark Brooks


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Can I eat a 3 pound burger?
Hey guys, I am on my way to Cleveland, OH for two reasons. One is for a mastermind meeting, where a group of us "information marketers" gets together to brainstorm ideas for our respective businesses. The other reason is a…
Source: www.johnalanis.com

Ignighter
Today, Ignighter is bringing a group of Obama supporters (official supporters, members of Obama support groups, staffers, etc) together on a group date with Clinton supporters (and former staffers). What a great idea. More on the Ignighter blog.

Today, Ignighter is bringing a group of Obama supporters (official supporters, members of Obama support groups, staffers, etc) together on a group date with Clinton supporters (and former staffers). What a great idea. More on the Ignighter blog.


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Stylemepretty Matching up with Dating Sites?

Stylemepretty Matching up with Dating Sites?
I hear that StyleMePretty wedding blog is possibly going to announce some sort of deal with a dating site. Not much to go on but it's from a trusted source. Wedding websites are a logical extension for some dating sites, lots more money to be made in weddings than dating site subscriptions.

I hear that StyleMePretty wedding blog is possibly going to announce some sort of deal with a dating site. Not much to go on but it's from a trusted source. Wedding websites are a logical extension for some dating sites, lots more money to be made in weddings than dating site subscriptions.


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'It' vs 'I' —why one succeeds and the other fails
Hey guys, Although I do get a lot of email and a lot of letters mailed to me, I do sit down and read my correspondence. Not all of it by a long shot mind you, but a good enough…
Source: www.johnalanis.com

Stylemepretty Matching up with Dating Sites?
I hear that StyleMePretty wedding blog is possibly going to announce some sort of deal with a dating site. Not much to go on but it's from a trusted source. Wedding websites are a logical extension for some dating sites, lots more money to be made in weddings than dating site subscriptions.

I hear that StyleMePretty wedding blog is possibly going to announce some sort of deal with a dating site. Not much to go on but it's from a trusted source. Wedding websites are a logical extension for some dating sites, lots more money to be made in weddings than dating site subscriptions.


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'It' vs 'I' —why one succeeds and the other fails
Hey guys, Although I do get a lot of email and a lot of letters mailed to me, I do sit down and read my correspondence. Not all of it by a long shot mind you, but a good enough…
Source: www.johnalanis.com

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Accurate thinking

Accurate thinking
Hey guys, Just about every financially successful person has read Napoleon Hill's Think and Grow Rich, and for good reason–it lays out the behaviors that allow you to succeed, and those that cause you to fail. When someone first reads…
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Accurate thinking
Hey guys, Just about every financially successful person has read Napoleon Hill's Think and Grow Rich, and for good reason–it lays out the behaviors that allow you to succeed, and those that cause you to fail. When someone first reads…
Source: www.johnalanis.com

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Lookin' For Love In Canada

Lookin' For Love In Canada
CANWEST — Aug 16 — A growing number of Canadians are willing to pay for services such as online dating, speed dating, singles groups and matchmakers. Kim Hughes, editor-in-chief of Lavalife, says there are two key reasons that people pay to date: efficiency and customized searches. It's Just Lunch is a matchmaking service that works with upscale restaurant partners and charges $1,995 for one-year membership. Meet Market Adventures is a more casual singles service. It is a "pay-as-you-play" model with no membership fee, but individual fees are charged for each event. Meet Market organizes approximately 35 to 45 events every month. Justin Parfitt was single and looking to improve on existing speed-dating models when he founded his company, FastLife, in Australia in 2003. FastLife is now based in Toronto and has expanded into Canada, the U.S., New Zealand, the U.K. and China. The price of a standard event is $79 and includes an open bar. FULL ARTICLE @ THE WINDSOR STAR See all posts on Lavalife See all posts on It'sJustLunch See all posts on MeetMarketAdventures See all posts on FastLife

Canada_flag CANWEST — Aug 16 — A growing number of Canadians are willing to pay for services such as online dating, speed dating, singles groups and matchmakers. Kim Hughes, editor-in-chief of Lavalife, says there are two key reasons that people pay to date: efficiency and customized searches. It's Just Lunch is a matchmaking service that works with upscale restaurant partners and charges $1,995 for one-year membership. Meet Market Adventures is a more casual singles service. It is a "pay-as-you-play" model with no membership fee, but individual fees are charged for each event. Meet Market organizes approximately 35 to 45 events every month. Justin Parfitt was single and looking to improve on existing speed-dating models when he founded his company, FastLife, in Australia in 2003. FastLife is now based in Toronto and has expanded into Canada, the U.S., New Zealand, the U.K. and China. The price of a standard event is $79 and includes an open bar. FULL ARTICLE @ THE WINDSOR STAR

See all posts on Lavalife
See all posts on It'sJustLunch
See all posts on MeetMarketAdventures
See all posts on FastLife


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Lookin' For Love In Canada
CANWEST — Aug 16 — A growing number of Canadians are willing to pay for services such as online dating, speed dating, singles groups and matchmakers. Kim Hughes, editor-in-chief of Lavalife, says there are two key reasons that people pay to date: efficiency and customized searches. It's Just Lunch is a matchmaking service that works with upscale restaurant partners and charges $1,995 for one-year membership. Meet Market Adventures is a more casual singles service. It is a "pay-as-you-play" model with no membership fee, but individual fees are charged for each event. Meet Market organizes approximately 35 to 45 events every month. Justin Parfitt was single and looking to improve on existing speed-dating models when he founded his company, FastLife, in Australia in 2003. FastLife is now based in Toronto and has expanded into Canada, the U.S., New Zealand, the U.K. and China. The price of a standard event is $79 and includes an open bar. FULL ARTICLE @ THE WINDSOR STAR See all posts on Lavalife See all posts on It'sJustLunch See all posts on MeetMarketAdventures See all posts on FastLife

Canada_flag CANWEST — Aug 16 — A growing number of Canadians are willing to pay for services such as online dating, speed dating, singles groups and matchmakers. Kim Hughes, editor-in-chief of Lavalife, says there are two key reasons that people pay to date: efficiency and customized searches. It's Just Lunch is a matchmaking service that works with upscale restaurant partners and charges $1,995 for one-year membership. Meet Market Adventures is a more casual singles service. It is a "pay-as-you-play" model with no membership fee, but individual fees are charged for each event. Meet Market organizes approximately 35 to 45 events every month. Justin Parfitt was single and looking to improve on existing speed-dating models when he founded his company, FastLife, in Australia in 2003. FastLife is now based in Toronto and has expanded into Canada, the U.S., New Zealand, the U.K. and China. The price of a standard event is $79 and includes an open bar. FULL ARTICLE @ THE WINDSOR STAR

See all posts on Lavalife
See all posts on It'sJustLunch
See all posts on MeetMarketAdventures
See all posts on FastLife


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August 18, 2008

Accurate thinking

Accurate thinking
Hey guys, Just about every financially successful person has read Napoleon Hill's Think and Grow Rich, and for good reason–it lays out the behaviors that allow you to succeed, and those that cause you to fail. When someone first reads…
Source: www.johnalanis.com

Strong women, stronger men
Hey guys, In the last 20 years, society has changed a lot. Women are starting to be more aggressive in business, and in romance, and I for one think that's a very good thing. However, some guys are either frightened…
Source: www.johnalanis.com

Accurate thinking
Hey guys, Just about every financially successful person has read Napoleon Hill's Think and Grow Rich, and for good reason–it lays out the behaviors that allow you to succeed, and those that cause you to fail. When someone first reads…
Source: www.johnalanis.com

Strong women, stronger men
Hey guys, In the last 20 years, society has changed a lot. Women are starting to be more aggressive in business, and in romance, and I for one think that's a very good thing. However, some guys are either frightened…
Source: www.johnalanis.com

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Affiliate Marketing using Dating Websites and Torrents

Affiliate Marketing using Dating Websites and Torrents
Instead of taking the high road and creating a service that genuinely helps people decide on the right dating site and getting paid for it, this marketing troll is spamming filesharing networks with porn ads. Nice. And you wonder why people still get hives thinking about online dating. I had a hard time dealing with what […]

Instead of taking the high road and creating a service that genuinely helps people decide on the right dating site and getting paid for it, this marketing troll is spamming filesharing networks with porn ads. Nice. And you wonder why people still get hives thinking about online dating.

I had a hard time dealing with what I learned about the affiliate marketing industry "best practices" last week. Then to find this article, argh. Maybe it is time for two internets, I'd pay $40 a month to be on the top tier ad-free internet, the rest can be surfed for free, scammers, spammers and trolls throughout.


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Beer Goggles are For Realz
I'm sitting here jailbreaking my iPhone while I install some cool new applications that Steve Jobs isn't ready to officially approve, which means they are better than what's in the iPhone, or have created an additional revenue stream that Apple has no control over, or something as simple as cut-and-paste, which Apple evidently decided wasn't […]

I'm sitting here jailbreaking my iPhone while I install some cool new applications that Steve Jobs isn't ready to officially approve, which means they are better than what's in the iPhone, or have created an additional revenue stream that Apple has no control over, or something as simple as cut-and-paste, which Apple evidently decided wasn't important enough to include as a feature.

A highly placed official in a large dating site sent me the following, People Really Do Look Better When You Drink. For everyone trying to cure AIDS or cancer, someone else is earning credits for studying horny bar behavior. I guess we should be grateful for the opportunity to learn about human nature.

The research study is right, I'm looking at some profiles on dating sites and the woman look much better after a few drinks.

matchnewsearch.jpgA close friend got dumped by his fiance, second time she's performed that particular move, ouch. He's on Match and sometimes we compare the women in our hotlist and who contact us. He is a good sport when I go into research mode.

He's nowhere near as good looking as I am (ha), makes a lot more money and is gung-ho about having kids, so we see decidedly different search results.

When I went to the Match.com search page tonight, I see it's changed. Looks like they moved the search fields from the sidebar to the bottom of the screen. Knowing Match, there is a perfectly good reason for doing this. Or is there?

Match has all the answers but I'm not sure they know which questions to ask anymore. What's it like to grow to be arguably number one then hit the wall? More revenue per member, sure thats great for shareholder value but it sucks for the rest of us members.

PlentyOffish and SinglesNet are going to crush Match in terms of traffic over time, but boy is that traffic getting expensive.

Look at the difference between unique visitors and visits per month. There are almost three times as many visits to Singlesnet as to PlentyOfFish, and many of them are paying members. See the growth of unique members on PoF? Nice and steady, avoiding the stutter steps and fluctuations that most sites exhibit over time.

Don't let Guy Kawasaki and the affiliate marketing people like Shoemoney distract you, Markus at PoF pays a hell of a lot of money to get 30+ million visitors a month. Once you know what the competition pays so it's pretty easy to figure out the rest of the equation.

Markus didn't need to be at the Affiliate Summit in Boston this week. The people that make a lot of money affiliate marketing and advertising don't go to the shows and they don't talk.

OkCupid has grown buy a hundred thousand visitors and total visits went from 1.7 million to 4.5 million in the last year. People really like taking tests!

Funny thing about the online dating industry, it's all about online marketing, nothing more, nothing less. Anyone else tells you different they are too passionate about the market or ignorant. Passion for online dating doesn't make money or success, in fact it hurts you, just like it can in real life. Huge marketing budgets, absolute mastery of metrics and analytics and top-notch marketing leadership are required for success.

Time to go shoot some videos on my iPhone.


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Strong women, stronger men
Hey guys, In the last 20 years, society has changed a lot. Women are starting to be more aggressive in business, and in romance, and I for one think that's a very good thing. However, some guys are either frightened…
Source: www.johnalanis.com

Monster.com Losing Money on Dating
From SeekingAlpha: Non-core online dating and video sharing ($3.1 million deficit on revenue of $2.3 million in 2Q08) has been reclassified as a discontinued operation. Remember that $30 million purchase of Tickle and LoveHappens?

From SeekingAlpha:

Non-core online dating and video sharing ($3.1 million deficit on revenue of $2.3 million in 2Q08) has been reclassified as a discontinued operation.

Remember that $30 million purchase of Tickle and LoveHappens?


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Affiliate Marketing using Dating Websites and Torrents
Instead of taking the high road and creating a service that genuinely helps people decide on the right dating site and getting paid for it, this marketing troll is spamming filesharing networks with porn ads. Nice. And you wonder why people still get hives thinking about online dating. I had a hard time dealing with what […]

Instead of taking the high road and creating a service that genuinely helps people decide on the right dating site and getting paid for it, this marketing troll is spamming filesharing networks with porn ads. Nice. And you wonder why people still get hives thinking about online dating.

I had a hard time dealing with what I learned about the affiliate marketing industry "best practices" last week. Then to find this article, argh. Maybe it is time for two internets, I'd pay $40 a month to be on the top tier ad-free internet, the rest can be surfed for free, scammers, spammers and trolls throughout.


Source: feeds.feedburner.com

Beer Goggles are For Realz
I'm sitting here jailbreaking my iPhone while I install some cool new applications that Steve Jobs isn't ready to officially approve, which means they are better than what's in the iPhone, or have created an additional revenue stream that Apple has no control over, or something as simple as cut-and-paste, which Apple evidently decided wasn't […]

I'm sitting here jailbreaking my iPhone while I install some cool new applications that Steve Jobs isn't ready to officially approve, which means they are better than what's in the iPhone, or have created an additional revenue stream that Apple has no control over, or something as simple as cut-and-paste, which Apple evidently decided wasn't important enough to include as a feature.

A highly placed official in a large dating site sent me the following, People Really Do Look Better When You Drink. For everyone trying to cure AIDS or cancer, someone else is earning credits for studying horny bar behavior. I guess we should be grateful for the opportunity to learn about human nature.

The research study is right, I'm looking at some profiles on dating sites and the woman look much better after a few drinks.

matchnewsearch.jpgA close friend got dumped by his fiance, second time she's performed that particular move, ouch. He's on Match and sometimes we compare the women in our hotlist and who contact us. He is a good sport when I go into research mode.

He's nowhere near as good looking as I am (ha), makes a lot more money and is gung-ho about having kids, so we see decidedly different search results.

When I went to the Match.com search page tonight, I see it's changed. Looks like they moved the search fields from the sidebar to the bottom of the screen. Knowing Match, there is a perfectly good reason for doing this. Or is there?

Match has all the answers but I'm not sure they know which questions to ask anymore. What's it like to grow to be arguably number one then hit the wall? More revenue per member, sure thats great for shareholder value but it sucks for the rest of us members.

PlentyOffish and SinglesNet are going to crush Match in terms of traffic over time, but boy is that traffic getting expensive.

Look at the difference between unique visitors and visits per month. There are almost three times as many visits to Singlesnet as to PlentyOfFish, and many of them are paying members. See the growth of unique members on PoF? Nice and steady, avoiding the stutter steps and fluctuations that most sites exhibit over time.

Don't let Guy Kawasaki and the affiliate marketing people like Shoemoney distract you, Markus at PoF pays a hell of a lot of money to get 30+ million visitors a month. Once you know what the competition pays so it's pretty easy to figure out the rest of the equation.

Markus didn't need to be at the Affiliate Summit in Boston this week. The people that make a lot of money affiliate marketing and advertising don't go to the shows and they don't talk.

OkCupid has grown buy a hundred thousand visitors and total visits went from 1.7 million to 4.5 million in the last year. People really like taking tests!

Funny thing about the online dating industry, it's all about online marketing, nothing more, nothing less. Anyone else tells you different they are too passionate about the market or ignorant. Passion for online dating doesn't make money or success, in fact it hurts you, just like it can in real life. Huge marketing budgets, absolute mastery of metrics and analytics and top-notch marketing leadership are required for success.

Time to go shoot some videos on my iPhone.


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Strong women, stronger men
Hey guys, In the last 20 years, society has changed a lot. Women are starting to be more aggressive in business, and in romance, and I for one think that's a very good thing. However, some guys are either frightened…
Source: www.johnalanis.com

Monster.com Losing Money on Dating
From SeekingAlpha: Non-core online dating and video sharing ($3.1 million deficit on revenue of $2.3 million in 2Q08) has been reclassified as a discontinued operation. Remember that $30 million purchase of Tickle and LoveHappens?

From SeekingAlpha:

Non-core online dating and video sharing ($3.1 million deficit on revenue of $2.3 million in 2Q08) has been reclassified as a discontinued operation.

Remember that $30 million purchase of Tickle and LoveHappens?


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Misuse & abuse- Is this killing you?

Misuse & abuse- Is this killing you?
Hey guys, One thing I can't abide is people who are tied to their cell phones, PDA's, and lap tops. Instead of increasing productivity, people misuse and abuse them, killing their productivity. When one beeps, their "owner" comes running like…
Source: www.johnalanis.com

The rhythm of love
Hey guys, Ah, what a great song that is–Rhythm of Love by the Scorpions, back when rock -n roll ruled the scene, not this gawd-awful whiney alternative trash. While it is a great song, there is a lesson the title–"rhythm."…
Source: www.johnalanis.com

Monster.com Losing Money on Dating
From SeekingAlpha: Non-core online dating and video sharing ($3.1 million deficit on revenue of $2.3 million in 2Q08) has been reclassified as a discontinued operation. Remember that $30 million purchase of Tickle and LoveHappens?

From SeekingAlpha:

Non-core online dating and video sharing ($3.1 million deficit on revenue of $2.3 million in 2Q08) has been reclassified as a discontinued operation.

Remember that $30 million purchase of Tickle and LoveHappens?


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Misuse & abuse- Is this killing you?
Hey guys, One thing I can't abide is people who are tied to their cell phones, PDA's, and lap tops. Instead of increasing productivity, people misuse and abuse them, killing their productivity. When one beeps, their "owner" comes running like…
Source: www.johnalanis.com

The rhythm of love
Hey guys, Ah, what a great song that is–Rhythm of Love by the Scorpions, back when rock -n roll ruled the scene, not this gawd-awful whiney alternative trash. While it is a great song, there is a lesson the title–"rhythm."…
Source: www.johnalanis.com

Monster.com Losing Money on Dating
From SeekingAlpha: Non-core online dating and video sharing ($3.1 million deficit on revenue of $2.3 million in 2Q08) has been reclassified as a discontinued operation. Remember that $30 million purchase of Tickle and LoveHappens?

From SeekingAlpha:

Non-core online dating and video sharing ($3.1 million deficit on revenue of $2.3 million in 2Q08) has been reclassified as a discontinued operation.

Remember that $30 million purchase of Tickle and LoveHappens?


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Monster.com Losing Money on Dating

Monster.com Losing Money on Dating
From SeekingAlpha: Non-core online dating and video sharing ($3.1 million deficit on revenue of $2.3 million in 2Q08) has been reclassified as a discontinued operation. Remember that $30 million purchase of Tickle and LoveHappens?

From SeekingAlpha:

Non-core online dating and video sharing ($3.1 million deficit on revenue of $2.3 million in 2Q08) has been reclassified as a discontinued operation.

Remember that $30 million purchase of Tickle and LoveHappens?


Source: feeds.feedburner.com

Monster.com Losing Money on Dating
From SeekingAlpha: Non-core online dating and video sharing ($3.1 million deficit on revenue of $2.3 million in 2Q08) has been reclassified as a discontinued operation. Remember that $30 million purchase of Tickle and LoveHappens?

From SeekingAlpha:

Non-core online dating and video sharing ($3.1 million deficit on revenue of $2.3 million in 2Q08) has been reclassified as a discontinued operation.

Remember that $30 million purchase of Tickle and LoveHappens?


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Using Google Search to Spot Online Dating Trends

Using Google Search to Spot Online Dating Trends
Can you guess what dating website this represents? No peeking via Google, leave your answer in the comments.

2005ec3.png Can you guess what dating website this represents? No peeking via Google, leave your answer in the comments.


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Using Google Search to Spot Online Dating Trends
Can you guess what dating website this represents? No peeking via Google, leave your answer in the comments.

2005ec3.png Can you guess what dating website this represents? No peeking via Google, leave your answer in the comments.


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Strong women, stronger men

Strong women, stronger men
Hey guys, In the last 20 years, society has changed a lot. Women are starting to be more aggressive in business, and in romance, and I for one think that's a very good thing. However, some guys are either frightened…
Source: www.johnalanis.com

Strong women, stronger men
Hey guys, In the last 20 years, society has changed a lot. Women are starting to be more aggressive in business, and in romance, and I for one think that's a very good thing. However, some guys are either frightened…
Source: www.johnalanis.com

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